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At Holy Trinity, Prestwood, we offer a dignified and personal Church of England service in the heart of your loved one’s community. You can give thanks for the unique person you knew and loved in a way that gives you comfort and hope.
Anyone with a parish connection, regardless of whether they are a regular church goer or not, is entitled to a funeral at Holy Trinity. We can help you work out if you or your loved one has a connection to our parish.
And with the option to hold the reception in the church after the service, we can provide the perfect setting for reflection and remembrance without any additional worry or complicated arrangements.

Whether you are planning a funeral for a loved one, or even thinking about your own future wishes, we’re here for you.

The funeral service

A funeral at Holy Trinity, Prestwood offers a lot of freedom to reflect on a person’s life. No two funerals are ever the same. We understand the way in which you remember a loved one can take many different forms and we can incorporate them into the service including:

  • Live or recorded religious and non-religious music
  • Readings, poems and prayers
  • Eulogies and tributes
  • Items of special meaning
  • Videos, slides and photos
  • Tweets and Facebook posts

There are none of the time constraints or associations that come with a crematorium – indeed, a funeral at Holy Trinity can be small or large, formal or informal. We can even live stream the funeral for people who cannot be there.

Our Rector, the Reverend Deiniol Heywood, or one of our team, will meet with you to hear about the person you knew and loved and will discuss ways in which we can help you give thanks in a very special and unique way.

handsThe final farewell

After a funeral at Holy Trinity, you can choose to either have a burial in our churchyard or a cremation. Many families who are having a cremation choose to have a committal in our lychgate. We say our final farewell to our loved ones at Holy Trinity and the funeral directors take your loved one to the crematorium. This means you are not tied to the crematorium’s availability and you are less likely to lose some mourners.

The reception

At this difficult time, organising a separate venue for the reception can be very stressful and a source of unnecessary worry. Busy hotels and pubs can leave little room for mourning and celebrating a loved one undisturbed. Travelling between two separate locations can also make it difficult for older members of your group to attend, especially when parking is limited.
Holy Trinity can offer the perfect space to hold both the funeral and reception - without any of the issues separate venues can bring. After the service, we can rearrange the church to accommodate your group, whether it be small and intimate or a larger gathering. Our local caterers will meet with you to discuss your needs and can provide everything from simple refreshments to a full finger buffet.

We can discuss all of this when we meet but you can always contact the Church Office to discuss your wishes and requirements if you need to decide quickly.

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Please contact us for help and information.

You might find this prayer helpful. Anyone can pray.

Loving God,
the shadow of death has fallen over me
because someone I love has died.
Be with me through this time,
comfort me with your presence,
and let me see the light of hope,
for you promise eternal life
through Jesus Christ your son,
who died and rose again. Amen.

Holy Trinity, Prestwood is open during the day. You can take some quiet time to light a candle in the church, or you can light a virtual candle now.

Find out more about funeral planning

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CHRISTENING LOGO RGBWe are delighted you have chosen to have your child baptised (or christened, as it is also known) with us. We believe that, as your church, we have an important role to play in welcoming members of our community into church to mark the important events of life. The service of baptism allows us an opportunity to share in the joy of the gift of children and to thank God at the start of their lives.
Baptisms range from large celebrations involving lots of family and friends to small, intimate occasions. Whatever the size of the baptism, we will work with you to make it something special to remember as God’s love for your child is made known. The baptism will be arranged with you as a family; we don’t baptise groups of people together. Baptisms often take place in the main Sunday service at 9.30am. If a baptism doesn’t happen at the main Sunday service, it usually happens in a special ceremony at 12.30pm.
We want you and your guests to feel welcomed into the church. You sit wherever you like and you don’t need to worry about what is happening next or when to stand up and sit down—at most baptisms, we have a specially produced order of service where everything everybody needs is clearly laid out.
Baptism marks the beginning of a journey with God that continues for the rest of our lives. In the service, we use symbols to paint a picture of what baptism means.
There is the sign of the cross, the badge of faith, which reminds us how Christ died for us. There is the water, which is a sign of life. We cannot live without water, and we use it to wash with. Water in baptism represents the cleansing and refreshing love of God. There is oil—a sealing with the gifts of the Holy Spirit, a sign of blessing. There is a candle, lit to remind us of the light of Christ, which banishes the darkness of evil. It also reminds us that we walk in the light of Christ for the rest of our lives.
Baptism means accepting the way of Jesus Christ as a pattern for living and accepting his help to live a generous life and not a self-centred one.

Arranging a Baptism

iStock Baptism1SmallThe first thing to do is contact the church. It’s a good idea to have a few dates in mind at this point. We will arrange a meeting where the date and time of the baptism will be confirmed and the various options and choices explained. We’ll talk about the service and answer any questions you have about godparents, or any other aspect of the ceremony.
We would usually have a meeting the week before the baptism where we go through the order of service together. This is the best way to think about what baptism means and to answer any questions you might have.

At the Baptism

At the baptism, your child is given a certificate and a baptismal candle to remind them that Christ’s light is always with them. Then, or at a special service later on, we will present your child with a Bible—the good news of God’s love.

When can our baptism take place?

Christening 61 smallThere are two opportunities to have your child baptised with us, both of which take place on a Sunday.
The first option is to have your child baptised during the main Sunday service at 9.30am. This means, that as well as your family and friends, you will be inviting the whole congregation to take part in the service. The baptism will be arranged with you as a family in mind; we don’t baptise groups of people together.
Sometimes it isn’t possible for the baptism to take place in the main Sunday service and so baptisms can also take place in a separate service, generally on a Sunday lunch time.
In this instance, we provide a verger to prepare the church and the font, welcome you all and assist the priest taking the service. If you would like some music and hymns at a separate baptism service, then this can be arranged.
In this service, the family choose the readings. You can have as many readings as you like. At least one must be a Bible reading but the others can be chosen from anywhere—or written for the occasion. Here are some suggestions of Bible readings you may wish to consider.

Mark 1.1-11  John 3.1-8 
Romans 5.6-11  Psalm 66.4-11 
Genesis 17.1-8  John 15.1-11 
Matthew 28.16-20  Galatians 3.27-4.7 
Isaiah 43.1-7  2 Kings 5.1-15a 

 Please contact us if you would like these and some other suitable readings sent to you. These will enable you to get you started.

Donations

There is no formal charge for a baptism, however we invite those families having baptisms during the main Sunday service to sponsor the following:

Orders of Service (up to 100 copies)   £20.00
Sponsorship of altar flowers  £30.00
Sponsorship of music in church  £50.00
Contribution towards heating, lighting & church upkeep  £40.00

Similarly, there are no formal charges for a separate baptism service. However, by having a separate service, we do incur extra costs as a parish and would ask you to consider the following suggested donations:

Orders of Service (up to 100 copies) £20.00
Baptism Cards and Candles £10.00
Verger £40.00
Contribution towards heating & lighting £50.00
Provision of an organist (on request) £95.00

For private baptisms, we will send you an invoice before the service takes place.

No one is excluded from the life and ministry of our church for financial reasons. In any case of financial need please speak to the Rector or the minister arranging your service.
If you are able to contribute a little bit more to support the ongoing life and ministry of the church we would be most grateful. Similarly, if you are a UK tax payer and able to Gift Aid your donation that will help us at no extra cost to yourselves. A gift aid form is included in our booklet.

Find out lots more really useful information about Church of England Christenings.

Hiring Our Church Hall

If you are having a celebration after the baptism, you may be interested in hiring our church hall. This is available once the Sunday School children have finished for the morning –normally this is from 10.45am. The hall is a great place for gatherings with its own kitchen area, chairs and tables which can accommodate up to 60 people seated and an outside play area as well. The hall is also fully accessible for disabled visitors.
The hall can be hired for £12 per hour. Find out more and book the hall.

Find out about Children and Young People at Holy Trinity

Find out about Toddler Thursdays!

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Wedding Logo FINAL MonoFirst of all, congratulations on your engagement! Whether you have recently got engaged or are actively planning your special day, we’re delighted that you are thinking about getting married at Holy Trinity.

This church has been serving the people of Prestwood and Great Kingshill for over 160 years. Many families have generations of members married here and for many who have moved to Prestwood, Holy Trinity has become the family church.

We believe a church wedding is the best way to begin your married life, whether or not you go to church often. The vows you will make can only be made in church. It is a special and proper place to consecrate your love, ask for God’s blessing and take this important step in your life together.

We will work with you to make your day personal to you as a couple. If you have children, they can be involved too. You have plenty of choice over readings, music, flowers and all the other things that will make your wedding a unique occasion—and a true reflection of your love for each other.

We hope that our wedding brochure (downloadable at the bottom of this page) is of help as you begin planning. We look forward to celebrating your wedding day with you and send our warmest good wishes as you prepare for the day.

Wherever you are in the process, please feel free to contact the Rector by phone or email if you have any questions or concerns—we want you to enjoy the preparation almost as much as the wedding day itself, so please don’t get stressed!

How It Works

W2The first thing to do is to contact the Rector or the Church Secretary to find a suitable date. At this point you will need to pay a non refundable £50 deposit to secure your wedding date.

The next step will be to arrange an initial meeting with the minister who will take your wedding. We’ll talk through the legal process by which couples get married in church—it is different to a civil wedding. In nearly every case, is pretty easy to arrange. We’ll talk through the various costs and options that you have. By about four months before the wedding date, we should have a fair idea about the content of the service—the readings, hymns and music. After we’ve planned your service, we talk in more detail about what it all means and what it is all about. We focus on the vows you make to each other: these are the heart of the service. Church is the only place you can make promises this big to each other. By making these promises in church, you invite God, who is loving and caring, to help you keep them.

What about a Wedding Blessing?

Sometimes couples will have a civil ceremony followed by a wedding blessing.  A wedding blessing doesn’t contain any legal elements of a wedding, but it does contain all the spiritual elements of vows and rings, and is every bit a church wedding!

Things to think about

Can we involve our children?
Many people getting married will have children and want to involve them in the wedding. There are lots of different ways to do this. The main thing is to make sure everybody is comfortable and happy with what’s happening. Tell the minister early on that you’d like to involve your children in the ceremony, and then you can think through the best way to do that for your wedding.

Getting married after a divorce
It has been possible for people to get married in church after a divorce for some time. If you have been divorced, tell the minister when you meet.

One of us isn’t a British National. Does that change things?
It’s important for you to be sure your marriage will be legally recognised in your home country, if that isn’t the UK. Getting married here doesn’t automatically confer any right of residency. It is generally a simple matter to work out the best route to marriage if you aren’t a British National. Every case is different, so make sure you raise this with your minister at the start.

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Our church has flexible seating which can accommodate up to 150 people. For smaller weddings, we can change the seating arrangements for a more intimate feel. 

Have your Reception here too!

W4We understand that weddings can be expensive and at Holy Trinity, Prestwood, we are delighted to be able to offer a ‘Wedding for a Grand’ package. For £1,000, you will have use of the church for your wedding ceremony and exclusive use of our hall and churchyard for your wedding reception. All your statutory wedding fees will also be included, making this a really affordable way of having a beautiful church wedding and being able to celebrate with all your family and friends afterwards.

We can also arrange a bespoke wedding reception at the church for you. This can include the hire of our two marquees, and the use of the church as the venue for your reception or evening dinner. Look at our Venue Hire page and please ask what we can do for you!

Download our Wedding Brochure for more information.

Visit Your Church Wedding for loads of information and help!

Visit Your Church Wedding

 

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